it's not about me

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i dont understand. Scolding is not the only way to correct the children right? Why are we not able to hold our anger when someone has done something imperfectly? In this world there are many types of personalities. So, we need to find out the most effective way to teach a person. For example, my brother. He does not like to be scolded. The more you scold him, more depressed he becomes. Self- denial and lost of confidence in everything he does. Improvement is not, worst it is. i tried once to talk to him in a funny way when correcting his work, he accepted  it and no complaint was made.

At least, he took the broom and helped us to sweep the floor. Although, dust could still be seen.

But why, thank you was not the word he received. He was nagged for around 15 mins. Now, he locked himself in his room.

i think if my mother says it in another way round, like this: '' thank you, my son. but you can do better, let me tell you which part you........''

i cant imagine how a guy will become when confidence is not instilled in himself anymore.

hope he is fine.