Greed

One person can be so greedy. So i do.

i desire a camera badly. But to own it, i need to start the 'bread plan' from today onwards.

What is 'bread plan'?

well, it's just a way of preventing you to feel hungry and at the same time you have saved up 80% of your pocket money. Hmm, maybe 90%.

Once i get that amount of money, it does not mean that i will own that camera, too. Because by that time, i think i will save up that money and keep it for another thing. oh well.

This picture reminded me of one night when i went out and dined with my friends at a restaurant.

Few seconds later, my mother called me and asked..

'' hey, going out and eat at restaurant? what had you ordered ? ''

and i answered

'' err.. garlic bread? '' (ps: 'bread plan' )

then, my friends started to laugh.

You cannot give to others what you do not have yourself. First, make yourself emotionally, physically, spiritually wealthy, and then freely give to others.

:)

aha! finally finished the second drama in this raya break! 'sungkyunkwan scandal' :D after watching city hunter and this drama, i found out that i actually quite enjoy those drama which are classified into period as their genres more. For instance, this 'la', taechangkeum, hwangjinyi. Sungkyunkwan Scandal is set in Sungkyunkwan University in the late Joseon era during the reign of King Jeongjo, revolving around the exploits and love stories of four youths. When her younger brother's illness worsens and their family is in danger of being evicted from their house for lack of money, Kim Yoon Hee enters the school under his name, disguised as a boy in her desperation to support him. There, she becomes friends with the intelligent and upright Lee Sun Joon, the playboy Goo Yong Ha and rebellious Moon Jae Shin. Anyway, have this kind of matters ever happened in the past before? i would be proud of that girl.

Another moral issue which has been mentioned in the drama is that what will you do as a child, when you know about your dad, the person who once you respected the most, the person who is your role model since the day you're born to this world, had been doing immoral things.

‘舍身取义'

After knowing the truth behind, you're taught to forgive him. But, the problem is how are you able to say ' i forgive you' as when he doesnt even bother to admit his own fault in front of you and provides that opportunity for you to do so? Escapism and ignorance are not the best solutions because the roots of the problem will only grow deeper and as time passes by it will be more difficult to pluck it out of the ground. Disappointment seeds within child's mind because the child loves his dad too much.

How cant the dad understand how his child feels? Ego and pride and status and shamefulness? Then where are the love, fairness, teachings, acknowledgements?

  ' once you have done wrong, stand up and admit it. '

To every parent, it will only be a heartaching say to your children if you do not even make it as your own principle but use that kind of theory to teach your children. Because you dont even bother to show the right attitude to your children. Credibility and reliability of a life teacher will just be gone like that.

It's too painful to the children of yours because they love you too much.


So, please be a real role model, let the children to be proud of you and let them wont have any second thought on what you did.

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